Tuesday, 30 January 2018

My Mentor And I

Hello there,



Today, I'm writing about, My Mentor and I.

There are key words that i should define first before we head on.

  Who is a Mentor?
A Mentor is an experienced and trusted Consultant, Therapist, Adviser and even a Counselor. 

  What is Mentor-ship?
This is a relationship in which a more experienced and knowledgeable (and trusted) person helps to guide a less experienced person. Your Mentor must have a certain area of expertise you need.

Now I'm simply going to be telling a story, because aside books, book reviews and book reading, this blog is all about personal development because this blog should be able to impact in you, when you go through it.

Earlier in the month, i attended a seminar, (you should know that I'm all about seminars and conferences that make me better). and i met a Man, who was spoke quite well, i listened to him and got more than even the guest speaker (no offense, if he gets to read this๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜). He spoke on Purpose, i was there a bit late but i got what i went there for, i quicky went to him after the event and said hi and he responded and asked me to see him anytime i could and i left.


Later in the week, i called him and we met.
At this point, i should state that this Mentor of mine is a successful business man, and he has a beautiful family.

From the first question he asked, my confidence went from 100 to zero QUICKLY, but then i realized needed not just a Mentor, but this particular Man as a mentor.

You see that confidence i lost back in his presence? i gained a bit in Two weeks, and trust me, I AM learning even more, whats more? he is very interested in what i do. Books!

Dear Reader,
 Mentorship is important not just because of the knowledge and skills a Mentee can learn from the Mentor but because it also provides professional socialization and personal support to facilitate success in your career and beyond.
Two weeks and I'm growing, Spiritually, Emotionally and mentally, because what i am acquiring will help mold me for the best and biggest future ever. You thought I'd complete the story yes? sorry to disappoint you.

All I'm telling you in essence, is to get yourself, a mentor! He/She will check and balance your excesses, encourage you, advice you and push you to what you want be be, Because for you to achieve any dream, you have to already thought of an Ideal future you want.

Get you someone who would care so much about you he's ready to push you to your desired future.


Thank You For Reading. Hope you enjoyed this short piece
 
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Saturday, 27 January 2018

BROKEN

 

 

 

 

This is a story of a young girl who was abused sexually by her uncle several times, with her innocence lost, she devised a means to kill, not just him but his entire family. 

Written by Malami Adekunle

 

 

Her pain was your glory

Your pain will be her redemption’


Her innocence was food for his ego, watching her struggle beneath him made him feel like a man.
He smiles at her tears, her pain as he forces her legs apart and forcefully penetrates her, pretending as if he didn’t hear her desperate pleas of “Uncle please don’t!”, “Uncle no I beg you in the name of God! Please don’t do this!”. This always brought a wicked satisfied smile to his face.
And when he was done, He’d tell her;

“Clean yourself up and go make me dinner”

As he swaggered out of her room and when she didn’t do his bidding, he’d smack, slap and throw her around screaming;

“I own you! You’re mine and you must do as I say! You hear me! You must obey me”.
Her innocence now long vanished, she’d just have a distant look on her face as he had his way, and before he asked she’d already be off to the kitchen to prepare his meal. Unsurprised by the recent developments, he’d smile to himself knowing he’d broken her spirit.
But the devil does not always wear Prada, at times the devil is a 16 year old girl who has been raped for the best part of 6 years. Her youth and innocence taking a never to return vacation to the prison yard of pain, regret and betrayal.
He was shocked at how his wife and two daughters had mysteriously died in quick succession without any prior illness. He was even more surprised as his niece came to offer herself to him like a burnt offering. 

She said “Uncle fcuk me and ease your pain”.

The lust in his eyes didn’t let him see the knife with a wrapped handle she’d dropped at the base of the bed just where her hand could reach.
As she started riding him, she confessed to slowly poisoning his wife and kids so no one suspected a thing. She said she had told his wife about how he raped her every night but she didn’t do anything about it, I guess she figured if you were feeding your demons on me, then she’d be free from your torturous punches.  I can’t blame her really but she had to die and your children’s death was a sweet revenge of the future you took from me and they carried your DNA, can’t have little pedophiles roaming the streets.
She fed her strength off the anger and horror look on his face. Just as he was about to start saying something, she swiftly moved for the knife and even more swiftly stabbed him in the chest multiple times.

She removed the knife from his chest and brought the edge to her lips, licking just enough blood off it. She closed her eyes and rocked her head backwards, savoring the sweet taste of revenge and then she stabbed him again.

She smiled to herself as he was bleeding helplessly and said;

“O! Yes I remember. I have to go get your dinner”.

Then she walked out of the room swaying seductively as he watched on from the bed helplessly breathing his last breathe.
When she returned, she had cleaned herself up. Then she took his phone and dialed 911, faking a cry as she spoke;

“There’s been a murder at our house! Help!! Please come quick”.

She proceeded to scatter the room as if a scuffle had just occurred in it, then she sat in front of the door and started faking crocodile tears.

She felt satisfied, this plan had taken her four years to plan and execute and now the bastard is no more. Maybe now, she can sleep in peace.
 
 
We think its a beautiful horror story
No means No, say no to Rape, Violence and Abuse.
 
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Chinua Achebe's THINGS FALL APART - The Review




Hello there,
In this article, you're going to be seeing two things, The Book Land in pictures and the Book review in words,  you might have read this book a long time ago, or may never have, but this is the review and our thoughts as a club.
Read on and let us know what you think at the end of it.

The book 'Things Fall Apart' apart from being a revealing book, is a classic, it won tons of award and lots of nominations. It comprises of 25 chapters, and the story spans around a young man named Okonkwo, who at a tender age began to fend for his family 'he was forced to become an adult as a teenager by circumstances', in the words of a member.


It was written in a fully traditional Ibo setting, in a village called Umuofia. The men of this village were known for Farming Yams. the number of yams in your barn showed how much of a man you were, but Okonkwo was that and more. He was a wrestler, and at 18, he had defeated Amalinze the cat, who had stayed undefeated for seven years. He had a family, three wives But his success was fueled by one man, his father, Unoka. We are told that his father was 'lazy and improvident and was quite incapable of thinking about tomorrow', which is quite strange because most villagers were known for their entrepreneurial spirit and since he couldnt provide for his family and was constantly in debt, okonkwo swore not to be anything like his father.


There was an instance where a man from Mbaino village killed a woman from Umofia, the wife of Ogbuefi Udo on the market day and so Mbaino had to choose between a war or restitution, they chose the latter, which came in form of a young boy named Ikemefuna and a virgin. the virgin to replace the widower whose wife was killed.
Ikemefuna came to live with Okonkwo and his family before the council of elders decide what to do with him.

Umofia had a sound justice system, they had the supreme court of the Nine Egwugwus believed by the villagers to be ancestral spirits, when in fact they were men of the village in disguise. 'Each of the nine Egwugwus represented a village of the clan and were feared by all villagers. Okonkwo was one of them, but throughout this book, when Okonkwo committed crimes, he was punished duly according to the laws of the land. and so we noticed that, though villagers, the had a sound justice system. Nobody lived above the law.

He committed crimes, and paid the price accordingly but one which stood out was when he killed  a boy mistakenly, during the funeral celebration of Ezeudu. it was a mistake but it earned his family and him and exile from Umofia for seven years and it was  after he left, the missionaries made their first and thus subsequent visits.


Okonkwo did well for himself in Umofia and in exile in Mbanta, where he stayed with his mothers kinsmen but he was a rigid man, but he had a soft spot for Ezinma the daughter of his third wife, the book tells us, 'He never stopped regretting that Ezinma was a girl' and for that Nwoye, his oldest son, disliked his principles, and so, in the same way Okonkwo rejected his fathers ways, his son did the same, if this pattern evolved because of the nature of the father/son relationship or it was more than a generational conflict, we would never know. but we know for sure that Nwoye chose the ways of the missionaries over the ways of the culture he had grown into.

The Missionaries, came gradually to survey the Lands and eventually, gradually convinced the villagers of the existence of a God above, which they said was bigger and better than the gods they worshiped and revered so much. There were two ministers who came. Mr Brown, patient, easy going and always ready to listen. Mr Smith, was the exact opposite, punished almost immediately and felt His God was not to be taken lightly with.


But when Okonkwo returned to Umofia, neither the church the white man had set up or the villagers appealed to him, everyone had gone weak in his opinion and had forgotten the sacred values of the land. And so, he spoke to his clansmen violently, and they listened to him with respect,  but they had destroyed the church of the Oyinbo and when the District Commissioner invited the leaders of Umofia to talk, they were arrested, treated like prisoners and asked to pay a fine of two hundred and fifty bags of cowries because their clan had destroyed the church.


Okonkwo was choked with hate while imprisoned and even more hate, when the fine was paid and they were released and so, when the messengers of the District Commissioner came to Umofia again, he drew his matchet thoughtlessly and 'it descended twice and the mans head lay beside his uniformed body' but the other messengers escaped which meant trouble for Umofia. Okonkwo, did not live to see the trouble he caused  because '...they came to the tree from which Okonkwo's body was dangling, and they stopped dead'. he had committed suicide, which an abominable act in Umofia.

Okonkwo, hated his father so much, but they both died similar deaths. abominable and the earth goddess could not receive them into the earth. 


The book has many sides, twists and turns but one thing we took from it was that, even though the White man thought they brought us civilization, they met us civilized. and the writer used the Ibo people to drive his point. They had a justice system that was fair. they toiled and tilled the land and harvested for food. And they looked up to the gods they believed in and they taught their children values.

Thank you for reading.
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Thursday, 25 January 2018

FIVE KEY BENEFITS OF READING




 Hello there, 
Trust you're having a beautiful Thursday, I'm going to be writing about the benefits of reading on this post. Although it was written by JOHN GRISHAM, it will be explained further by me. I've listed them down below and ill explain them further after the list. 


11.    Increased knowledge
22.    Expanded horizons
33.    Improved vocabulary
44.    Sharpened thinking
55.    Enhanced empathy

11. Increased Knowledge: As a person who reads or as as a person who has made up his/her mind to begin, you must know that for every book you pick up to read there is something new to learn. might be novels, textbooks, or religious books. the aim is that by the last page of that book. you have learnt at least one new thing that you may or may not even put to use in your everyday life, but trust me, that knowledge will come in handy some day. 



  2. Expanded Horizons: to expand your horizons usually is to open yourself up to new opinions and ideas, or to experience or learn new things. Now there are different ways to expand one's horizons, it could be traveling or in this case, reading. when you pick a book to read, you have agreed to learn or experience another persons opinion. it doesn't mean you have to agree with what the writer says that is why we have people for or against an opinion.

  3. Improved Vocabulary: when reading, it is advisable to have a dictionary by your side or better still in your device which technology has made even easier. you can download one into your mobile device and walk about with it. Which means for every new word you uncover, you can search for the meaning and learn it. you have improved by one word that has stuck!. For me, when i learn a new word, i talk about it as often as i can, in conversations, in instant messaging, that way i get familiar. trust me, it works!


  4. Sharpened Thinking: Google says, "if you sharpen your senses, understanding or skills, you become better at noticing things, thinking and doing somethings". And of course one of the ways to sharpen these is by reading and paying attention to those things you have read. For example, you pick a book on Purpose, you can read and apply it to your daily life and even tweak some principles to work better for you.

  5. Enhanced Empathy: Empathy is basically the ability to put oneself in someone else's shoes. its trying to feel what they are feeling an understanding of why they are feeling it. For example if you read 'The Fault In Our Stars' by John Greene, "A Story about Love, Cancer, Pain and Death. You'd understand the story of every other sick cancer patient out there. i literally cried all night reading that book.

  There a lot more other reasons on why you should pick up a book and read, but before then, feed on these five and i hope you enjoyed reading. 

Tuesday, 23 January 2018

MASKS



photo credit: Google










HALT!!Who goes there, friend or foe?

Because true friends I no longer know.
How wonderful and exquisite is the car - BMW

They say a mans true friend is a dog,
But you must be able to jump like a frog,
Because you will surely find many.
Genuine love, i pray you find in any.

Looks are as conspicuous as they are deceptive, 
A persons true identity could be repulsive,
The feeble, helpless,aged man you despise,
Maybe an angel, better be wise.

True friends are indeed very hard to tell,
The once heavenly lucifer now reigns in hell,
The sun, Moon and Stars may all be up in the skies,
How well they relate may come as a surprise.

Blood brothers; Cain and Abel
Just friends; Jonathan and David (King Saul's rebel)
Now foes; America and Pakistan

What is the defination of a true friend
One who praises you yet plots your sudden end or one who borrows a cent
And returns it even with some added percent

Jesus Christ had 12 trusted, sanctified disciples
Yet, one manifested humanly principles.
My friends wear masks, Lord please take them off. For my enemies i can surely take care of.

Written by Istifanus. 2002.

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Monday, 22 January 2018


 LOUD SILENCE is the story of a young and beautiful woman called ONOME, who is truly heartbroken and has vowed that no man will disrespect her again. But the day she makes that vow she flags down the taxi of the most annoying man she has ever met, except he does not drive a taxi for a living as she thought.

He is Andrew and although she never gave him as much as a second glance when she dropped from his car, they meet again in a family meeting, and there's more to him than she thought at first.

This is indeed LOUD SILENCE.





ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Radiant Phoebe is a Psychologist, a writer and a coach. She  graduated from Nasarawa State University, Keffi. She loves reaching out to youths especially ladies and is passionate about bringing out the best in others. She is a fashion designer and an entrepreneur.
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Friday, 19 January 2018

Dreams wake me!

Valentine Onyeka Ogunaka is a seasoned spoken word artist.
He is many things in one person, mentor, role model, a librarian and a business man.
He has spoken in schools seminars and even talk shows.
He is the author of the best seller 'Dreams Wake Me' a collection of poems from the journey of his #iamnotafaileddream voyage.

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Read. Lead. Succeed!

Tuesday, 16 January 2018

Welcome to The Book Land

Hi there,
This  is The Book Land blog, here you find, complete and detailed information about whatever you see on our social media accounts.
 The Book Land is an online book store where we sell books, of course online especially by Nigerian Authors.
We also run a book club, where we meet once monthly in Kaduna.
The Book Land is an outfit that promotes Nigerian Authors, hosting a  bi- monthly book reading and signing event as well as help writers reach a wider audience.

We are at our inception stage and we hope you follow us through this beautiful journey to see our growth.

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